What is so cool about getting to write these words right now is that I am sending them to two men that I love and admire. I also feel a great deal of love and support coming back from both of you. The way I feel about the two of you and the way the interest and support goes back and forth between us is exactly the way I want things to be with me and Jace.

I have loved so much the chance to watch him grow and to get to know him. I almost can't wait to have him mature so that I can feel even more what he is feeling and hear him speak his thoughts to me. Again I can draw on my own experience here. Lately in my life I have felt that I have grown and I have felt that both of you have been genuinely interested in what I am capable of. That is terrific inspiration.

At a very young age, I felt that I had a father that was intrigued with me and inspired by me. That is how a father should be. Kevin, you have done a really fine job of making Jake and Jo Jo feel like you respected what they are capable of; it goes without saying that you get a huge charge - who wouldn't though - out of the talent that they

have displayed as a dancer and as a musician. They feel this genuine interest from you. It builds the bond.

I love being a son and a brother. I love being a father. None of these roles in my life feel tough for me right now. I am grateful for that. But if anything ever does get hard in any one of those roles I plan to meet the test with the power of love and with a genuine interest in finding out what might be going on and how I might be able to help.

The both of you have been so generous, just the way great men are that are great fathers and family members, and really and truly not a day goes by that Leah and I aren't grateful for all that you have done.

Peace

EBH

 

 

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